An American (Voting) Abroad

Prior to moving to South Africa, I would have never described myself as patriotic. But when I started to travel extensively and work with international colleagues, I suddenly found myself referred to as "the American" in group settings. I found myself in situations where my accent affected how strangers treated me. I found it difficult to make friends because of the assumption that I was transient visitor when I was trying to put down roots.

It’s true, the cliché, that when you travel you are a representative of your homeland. You might have to grow a thick skin when you’re compared to certain stereotypes, but trust the best of friendships made while living abroad will see you as the person that you are and not define you solely by the place that you come from. Let people in and their stereotypes will melt away. You can return the favor by being open to experiencing their culture. As we all grow increasingly more connected, this exchange is essential.

I remember back to a time at the grocery store when I found myself awkwardly smiling as the clerk belt out her best rendition of the chorus to Jay Z's 'Empire State of Mind' at me, over and over again, as she swiped my items. In that silly moment and while the others in line behind me sighed with impatience, I felt my attitude shift to one of immense appreciation. I’d been to the city she was singing about. I knew the concrete streets and big lights she was referring to. It’s where I come from.

Maybe living abroad has made me a little more patriotic and, undoubtedly, more aware of my privilege. As a female traveling through areas where gender inequality affects residents day-to-day life, it has made me increasingly more aware voting is a right I can and will never take for granted. 

If you're an American living abroad, it's easy to submit a request for an absentee ballot for our upcoming election. More details on obtaining your absentee ballot can be found online or you can start the process by signing up on the Overseas Vote Foundation.